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Last weekend, as my one-car family came out of its post-flu haze, I was inspired to hop aboard Amtrak’s Capitol Corridor line with my youngest for a day trip to visit relatives in Sacramento. It’s a trip our family’s made several times in the past, now complicated by the fact that we have too many people to fit in Grandma’s car—or even a regular taxi from the station—on the other end. Yet with one wee babe, I figured it would be a perfect escape for us.

Now I realize that airfares, BART fares, and bus fares—not to mention the cost of milk and postage—have all been on the rise, but seeing a roundtrip adult ticket price of $44 from the East Bay to Sacramento stopped me in my tracks. Let’s be clear:

  • That’s one passenger only, for a trip that takes just over an hour in my car—which itself seats 7 passengers. 
  • It’s the cost of one tank of gas for that same car, for a trip that uses around ¼ a tank of gas. 
  • Not to mention (barring snarled holiday traffic), the trip takes longer by train than it does by car.
  • What’s more, that $44 ticket doesn’t even get me to either relative’s home on the other end.

And the distance I’d hoped to walk from the station if the weather was fair would have been an additional cab fare if it wasn’t. As I sat staring at my fare quote on Amtrak.com, feeling the full gravity of its implications, I suddenly noticed an optional add-on toward the bottom of the screen—what they had labeled a “deal.” In addition to my $44 roundtrip train fare, I could reserve a Hertz rental car on the other end for a mere $39.50 daily rate.

  • Yes, that’s less than the cost of my single passenger ticket. For a car.  
  • For 24 hours. 
  • That would get me—and a few other people—where we actually needed to go.
  • Yes, we’d still need to buy gas—perhaps the equivalent of one additional rail passenger’s ticket. 
  • All of my kids, however, would still be riding free—unlike on Amtrak where two would ride for 50% of the adult fare (at least the baby would have been free).
Total cost for a family of 4 to purchase RT tickets for this train ride: $132

Total cost for a family of 4 to rent a compact car for 24 hours: $39.50.

Please understand that my purpose in making this post is not simply to rant. Truth is, my heart is breaking over this. As I’ve mentioned before, rail trips have held a special place in my heart since I was young. In fact, I insisted on including the section on Travels by Train in Travels with Baby because I know how great rail travel can be—in the U.S. and abroad, especially when traveling with babies and young children. It can be an ideal mode of transport for families in certain situations, as illustrated in Part 6 of the book. I’ve wanted to help get more families on board our U.S. rail system, where possible, and this post is intended to be one more attempt at doing so.

Furthermore, in these difficult economic times, I think it’s more important than ever that we have affordable long-distance alternatives to travel by airplane and shorter-distance alternatives for driving. For example, if a person is willing to spend 51 hours to get from San Francisco (EMY) to Chicago riding in a coach seat (with no meals included, no sleeper compartment), I think it should cost less than an airplane ticket to travel the same distance in a few hours—don’t you?

For the same dates in February, for travel from San Francisco to Chicago, I found:

  • $309 roundtrip in coach, nonstop flights incl. taxes and fees, 4 – 4.5 hours each way.
  • $364 roundtrip Amtrak coach seats, 51 – 52 hours each way.

Of course, this doesn’t count baggage fees, which have yet to be imposed upon rail passengers and would apply to the air traveler. And children 2 to 15 years can ride Amtrak for half this price, whereas the domestic airlines gave up child discounts long ago. So if you have 104 hours to spend in coach seats with your children, this route may actually save you all some money as a family over flying. You should note, however, that according to Mapquest you could drive the distance in 31 hours.

But government agencies are stuck between rocks, hard places, and hard decisions all over the U.S. these days. Amtrak, which I realize is far more popular (and useful) on the East Coast than it is where I reside on the West, has continued to hike its fares with reason. And across much of the country, ridership has dwindled down to a precious few who can afford the novelty of a rail journey in the U.S. (where sleeper accommodations cost an additional $100-$400 per night) and those who have no other choice but to suck it up in lieu of driving. 

So what can Amtrak do to get more families on board—including yours?

1. How about a second class sleeper option? As I suggest in Travels with Baby, a second class sleeper option would probably have far greater appeal for traveling families than the current sleeper option, which is an automatic first class meal-inclusive (and bottled water, towels for the shower, etc.) upgrade. I share the example of a “Family Sleeper” compartment adding an extra $462 to the family’s passenger fare for an overnight trip from San Francisco to Portland, OR—just one night, and you’ll have to share the bathroom with your fellow passengers. Still, you can probably have filet mignon in the dining car at no extra cost (bwah!). But if you’re like me, packed sandwiches and snacks from home would be well worth an extra $250 in you pocket. At least.

2. What if more kids could ride free? With base ticket prices as high as they are now, it’s hard to argue the case for even a day trip by train for a family of four or more. Perhaps if the infant discount could be extended to allow all children up to 4 or even 6 years to ride free, as is the case in European countries, it would help give Amtrak an edge over airlines that offer free lap child travel up to 24 months—and is not nearly as safe as traveling car-seat-free by train.

3. Your thoughts here? What would it take to get your family onboard Amtrak? Would either of these options help tempt you to take the train? Have you wanted to try a U.S. Rail trip with your children, but held back for some reason? Are you one of the lucky ones who lives in a place where rail works well? Do you have a favorite Amtrak route?

Please share your thoughts, experiences, and suggestions below.

Safe journey,

Shelly Rivoli, author of the award-winning guide Travels with Baby
The Ultimate Guide for Planning Trips with Babies, Toddlers, and Preschool-Age Children
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Hi Shelly,

I love following you on Facebook!

I have a travel question…My son will be 10.5 months when we travel to Club Med Ixtapa in Mexico in two weeks. We bought an extra seat on the plane for him but we really don’t want to bring his car seat because we will not use it all week, so we don’t want to lug it with us. He is only 20 pounds, so we can’t use the CARES Harness.

What words of wisdom or other ideas do you have for us?

Thanks!

-Cori

Hi Cori,

Thanks for the follow! You present an interesting scenario, especially since most parents I hear from who purchase a seat for their babies do so in order to use the car seat on the airplane. I’ll start with the most important tidbit I think you should be aware of.

Point 1 – Flying with an infant in a paid seat
I’m not sure which airline you’ll be flying, but most will not allow a baby under 24 months to ride in its own seat on the aircraft without an approved and appropriate CRS (airline lingo for “car seat”) or the CARES flight safety harness.

Point 2 – CARES considerations

As you point out, CARES would not be appropriate for your 10-month-old at only 20 lbs., and also because it’s for babies who are also old enough and sturdy enough (at least 12 months) to ride in a forward-facing car seat on land (read all about CARES here).

Point 3 – Keeping baby comfy in flight
But I think a more important point, and one I’m guessing you’ll appreciate in the long run since I suspect you purchased the extra seat to have more room and greater comfort on your journey, is that a 10-month-old baby will simply not sit comfortably for long on an adult-size airplane seat. In his familiar car seat, you would have much better odds of him sleeping if you’re hoping for any napping during your flights, and if you install it rear-facing as you would in your car, he’ll be able to look at you as you travel, which may also be helpful in keeping him entertained—and fed.

Point 4 – On the ground
The other point to consider is the land transportation when you get to Mexico. I’m not sure what sort of vehicle you will ride in to and from the airport, and sometimes you can’t be sure until your arrival. But even a 15-minute cab ride can sometimes be a hair-raising adventure when you travel abroad (or in the U.S. for that matter). Whether you are part of a group transfer by bus or van, or take a taxi on you own, you may be very glad to have a car seat for your baby if it’s at all possible to use it.

So perhaps the next question is how to make it as easy as possible to take the car seat with you—and use it on the airplane? More tips and suggestions in chapters 3 and 16 of Travels with Baby and in the Great Products & Gear section of TravelswithBaby.com.

By the way, this photo caught my eye as I was glancing back through photos of Mexico looking for a contribution for Photo Friday at DeliciousBaby.com. It was taken outside of the spectacular Ik Kil cenote. We were admiring the tropical foliage when Rozzie caught on that this strange looking thing was a “flower” and began snorting exuberant exhalations the way any good toddler does when invited to smell something. A good reminder at the end of this crazy week to “stop and smell the bromeliads.”
Safe journey,

Shelly Rivoli, author of the award-winning guide Travels with Baby
The Ultimate Guide for Planning Trips with Babies, Toddlers, and Preschool-Age Children
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Here they are: 

1.  Think outside the recession.  Continue to find meaningful outings and adventures for my family and yours that cost little or nothing (see Point Bonita and Fort Funston posts for inspirations at San Francisco, and Dennis the Menace at Monterey, CA). Camping is also always on the radar for the Rivoli family travelers, but with better reason than ever this year (tips for your first “family” trips in Chapter 2 of Travels with Baby). Watch for more tips and ideas here in the blog.

2.    Take more video. I owe Jamie Pearson a big thank you for getting me started on this with the Mammoth Mountain Gondola video we shot last summer for TravelSavvyMom.com. Before I knew it, I was editing clips of the hang gliders of Ft. Funston and the Vacation Nannies of FDR. I love it!

3.    Keep my eyes on the scenery, not the screen-ery. As tempting as it can be to tweet and Facebook my way through a trip, I still feel it unfairly steals my attention away from the people making the journey with me—who are the most important people in my life, no less, and also the locals and other travelers I have the chance to interact with along the way, and the authentic experience of the places I have the good fortune to visit. 

4.    Embrace alternatives to air travel, which I have done throughout our family travels, but it becomes even more sensible with a family of 5 and ever-increasing air travel restrictions and rising fares. (Look to Parts 4, 6 and 7 of Travels with Baby for inspiration and ideas, including day trips by train, cost-saving family cruise tips,  road trip tips, and more.) 

5.    Continue to “dwell in possibility” of family adventure. With the addition of each of our 3 children, the shape of family travel has shifted and changed for us. The trips we took with one baby were different from those with a toddler and an expectant mother. Trips with a baby and a toddler, were different, too, and with good reason. And now with a young child, preschooler, and a baby in tow? Yes, getting us all to the park can be plenty challenging. Nevertheless, I not only enjoy travel, but a good challenge as well. And nothing brings us together as a family like an adventure, be it near or far.

How about you? Have you made any resolutions for travel in 2010? Will you—or won’t you be tweeting and Facebooking as you go? Will you try something new? Will you take your family on a train ride? Will you go camping? What’s on your list?

Shown above is yet one more fun free stop in San Francisco: the furniture section of Macy’s overlooking Union Square. It’s warm on even the foggiest of days, is centrally located with BART/Muni and cable car stops outside, makes for great people watching, has clean bathrooms, and even comfy chairs. (Those are my relatives visiting from out of state, who gave the stop two thumbs up.) For more travel photos and ideas, head over to DeliciousBaby.com, where this post is just one of many Photo Friday listings.

This post is part of my “Cheap and Free San Francisco” series.

Safe journey,

Shelly Rivoli, author of the award-winning guide Travels with Baby
The Ultimate Guide for Planning Trips with Babies, Toddlers, and Preschool-Age Children
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I love giving away good stuff! But I also hate breaking hearts, and since I know there will be a lot of disappointed folks reading this who did not win this giveaway, let me point you to one more chance to win an all-inclusive vacation WITH a Vacation Nanny.

On January 15th, FDR Holidays will be giving away another free stay to one lucky winner at their choice of Franklyn D. Resort & Spa or FDR Pebbles Resort (shown above). Click here for your chance to enter.

Now without further delay… congratulations to Mimi Dennis, whose second entry using the Travels with Baby Facebook fan page was the randomly chosen entry using Random.org (I’m guessing she’s REALLY a Travels with Baby fan now!). Ms. Dennis, you have 3 days to contact me and claim your prize.

For those of you still hoping to visit Franklyn D. Resort & Spa or Pebbles in the future, you may want to bookmark these helpful pages as resources:

And remember that children under 6 years old always stay free at both resorts! Thanks again to FDR Holidays for sponsoring this great giveaway!

I have more great giveaways coming up in the weeks ahead, and of course more tips for travel. Watch your subscriber updates for announcements! Till next time…

Safe journey,

Shelly Rivoli, author of the award-winning guide Travels with Baby
The Ultimate Guide for Planning Trips with Babies, Toddlers, and Preschool-Age Children
www.travelswithbaby.com   twitter   facebook

 

At Dunn's River Falls in JamaicaReminder: There’s just a little time left to enter to win the 3-night all-inclusive stay–with your own Vacation Nanny–at Franklyn D. Resort & Spa in Runaway Bay, Jamaica! Click here.


Far and away, one of my favorite family travel moments of the past year was hiking up the world-famous Dunn’s River Falls in Jamaica. As you can see, by “hiking up” the falls I mean hiking in the falls—in the river itself. That my two daughters, at only 3.5 and 5.5 years old, and my mother (who’s age is respectfully withheld here), were able to participate in this magical journey up the 600-foot vertically cascading river alongside of me and my husband was something we hadn’t expected and will never forget.

To set the scene properly: Dunn’s River Falls is one of the most popular tourist destinations on the North Coast of Jamaica, near Ocho Rios. The “Jungle Book-esque” scene features great little swimming spots throughout the ascent, plus a couple of spots to stop and get a “back massage” with short water falls pulsing against you. Be sure to stop and try the natural waterslide—and be prepared for a good dunk!

The ritual is that each group holds hands in a chain and makes way up the falls behind their guide who knows the river—and best places to step. Owing to its popularity, this landmark can at times be nearly blotted out by chain after chain of bikini-clad tour groups. That’s why, from day one in Jamaica, I began asking questions, trying to figure out the best way for our large family—a group with 3 adults, 2 children, and 1 infant—to visit the falls.
 
It all paid off when we arrived Friday morning with our FDR Vacation Nannies along to help (they get in for a discounted rate, as noted below) and only one other group was present (from Sandals adults-only resort, as shown here for the final segment of the climb). We had opportunities aplenty for money shots of the falls—without people. We also had our chance to choose a personal guide recommended by our Vacation Nannies (a friend of the family in fact) to take just our family who, a moment after discussing with our 3-year-old Rozzie, turned to announce, “Yes, she’s comin’ up the falls.” And to our amazement, and with his marvelous assistance, she did.
 
Our Rosalyn couldn’t have been more proud of herself for making it the entire way, though she had to be carried through some of the deeper portions, of course (as did her big sister). After all, it was at the entrance that the ticket lady explained she wasn’t going to charge anything for her because of course she wouldn’t be climbing the falls anyway. We kept quiet on the way out, of course.

 

Here are my tips for those of you hoping to see Dunn’s River Falls in Jamaica with your own families:

- The best decision we made was to hire our own transportation for the trip, especially when I found out it would be an $80 flat-rate fee (not including admission), regardless of the number of people or hours, and that we could also include a stop at Dolphin Cove, just 3 minutes from the falls and normally an entirely separate excursion and fee. We traveled in our own small bus on our own schedule, Vacation Nannies, breastfed baby, and all, and made a great day trip of it. The transportation was booked through our resort, and other travel-savvy families who consider doing the same may also like to split the fee and share the fun with another family at the resort.

- The second best move was to go in the morning and on a day when there aren’t any cruise ships in port and most other groups have not yet arrived. For those staying on land, it can be well worth asking which days the ships are in port to help avoid the extra crowds. For the record, Friday morning was optimal, though schedules may change seasonally.

- The third best decision was to bring our Vacation Nannies who got in for a discounted rate, wore the baby in the infant carrier and watched as we climbed, carried towels for us, and even took pictures with our camera. (You’ve got to love the Vacation Nannies!)

- For those of you staying at Franklyn D. Resort & Spa: You can choose to visit Dunn’s River Falls with a group on a 2.5 – 3 hour excursion, including transportation, organized through FDR. Currently the excursions are offered Wednesdays & Sundays at $22 per child, $35 per adult, and $8 Vacation Nanny (you can of course opt to go without the kids and leave them with the Vacation Nanny at the resort if you prefer).

- Or arrive under your own steam, by rental car, taxi, or minibus, and pay entrance $12 per child 2+ years, $15 per adult (and $8 if you bring an FDR Vacation Nanny).

- C. Saunders (Carlton) was our personal guide, and was fantastic with the whole family. I think all the registered guides at the falls are probably quite good, but we definitely give Carlton the Rivoli family stamp of approval.

- Wear water shoes.

- Bring a waterproof camera, preferably one with a wrist strap. Guides are accustomed to carrying them and photographing you at great spots along the way (tip accordingly!).

- Lockers are available, plus restrooms, snacks, water shoes (which you will need) and tons of souvenirs.

- The first section is the most difficult, where the climb begins from the beach and passes under a bridge. If you or your children can do that without a problem, the rest should be fine.

- You will have a few opportunities where you can step out and onto stairs/walkway beside if you or your children have had enough.

- Tip your guide. Don’t forget to stick some dollars in your pocket (even soggy and wet and from the U.S. are welcome with much appreciation).

Safe journey,

Shelly Rivoli, author of the award-winning guide Travels with Baby
The Ultimate Guide for Planning Trips with Babies, Toddlers, and Preschool-Age Children
Visit http://www.travelswithbaby.com/

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