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Tip #20: Get Liberated from LATCH

Monday, January 28, 2008

Of the many concerns I hear from new parents preparing for their first big trip with the car seat, one topping the list is a fear of having to install their car seat without the LATCH attachments they've grown accustomed to in their own cars. It's an understandable fear--especially considering the multitude of seatbelt types you might encounter in vehicles without LATCH (which are covered in detail in Travels with Baby in Chapter 11: Before You Go By Car). However, I think it's helpful, and even reassuring to understand a couple of points about LATCH as you prepare to travel with your child's car seat. First, there is a common misconception that your car seat functions more safely somehow if it is installed with LATCH rather than your car's seatbelt. However, as long as you car seat is properly installed with a seatbelt, it is equally safe--some people might even argue that it's more safe with a seatbelt installation, which brings me to my next point. Many parents don't realize that LATCH anchors are only rated for use with children weighing 48 lbs or less, or more importantly for a maximum combined child + car seat weight of 65 lbs. If you use a car seat with a higher upper weight limit, such as the Britax Marathon that is approved for children up to 65 lbs., you will see the note in your car seat's manual to "Use vehicle belt (not LATCH connectors) for installations with children weighing more than 48 pounds (21 kg)." The bottom line is, if you aren't already accustomed to installing your child's car seat with a seatbelt, practice before you travel. It can save you a lot of time and stress as you try to get the car seat in place on aircraft, in taxis, in shuttle vans, and in the cars of friends and extended family. For help, take a look at your car seat's manual (find it online here) and be sure to see Chapter 11 of Travels with Baby, which includes sections on Installing Car Seats with Confidence and Seatbelt Specifics, plus Car Seat Laws Across State Lines and Driving with Children in Foreign Countries. For recommended car seats and accessories for travel, click here.

Safe journey,

Shelly Rivoli, author of Travels with Baby
The Ultimate Guide for Planning Trips with Babies, Toddlers, and Preschool-Age Children

 

 

Tip #19: Electronic Tickets and Infants Flying Overseas

Friday, January 18, 2008

If you'll be flying overseas or across international borders with your baby on your lap, be aware that your "lap child" must have a physical, paper ticket for the flight--even if your own airline ticket is an electronic (paperless) ticket. This means that if you are buying e-tickets online, you will likely see an extra shipping fee to have your child's ticket sent to you by mail. If you are working with an agent, make certain he or she knows your lap child's ticket must be issued in paper. We almost missed this lovely flight to France learning this important lesson, although we had paid the 10% fare for our daughter's international airline ticket as a lap child and she was included in our reservation. 

Safe journey,

Shelly Rivoli, author of Travels with Baby
The Ultimate Guide for Planning Trips with Babies, Toddlers, and Preschool-Age Children

 

 

 

Tip #18: Pack "Glow Sticks"

Monday, January 7, 2008

Having the power knocked out here at home for 17 straight hours was a great reminder of one very good item to have tucked into your suitcase while you’re away. In Travels with Baby, I recommend packing emergency “glow sticks” as a help while camping in tents and staying other places where nightlights are not an option. For preschoolers, they can also be a comfort to keep by the bedside and carry to the bathroom should nature call at night—and of course they’re far more fun for small children than standard-issue travel flashlights (which are also good to have along). While losing electricity at home can be a major inconvenience, the chance of losing it while staying in unfamiliar territory, where you’re already minus many comforts of home, is certainly reason enough to dedicate the smallest corner of your suitcase to a couple of glow sticks. Tealites and other candles may also take little space, but keep in mind that many hotels won’t allow them, and with curious toddlers and children in the room, they could be more of a nuisance and a hazard than emergency glow sticks, which can be placed virtually anywhere and even carried in the hand.  

Safe journey,

Shelly Rivoli, author of Travels with Baby
The Ultimate Guide for Planning Trips with Babies, Toddlers, and Preschool-Age Children

 

   

Tip #17: Travel with Playdough

Thursday, December 27, 2007

 

In Travels with Baby, I recommend playdough as a great help when traveling with highly active children who need a physical outlet for their energy while trapped in transit. But playdough can also be a great "travel toy" for many toddlers and preschoolers, regardless of their temperaments. Just keep one small ball of playdough in a Ziploc sandwich bag handy in your diaper bag or day pack, and it's ready to entertain at restaurants while waiting for a meal, as well as in hotel rooms and cruise ship cabins. While strapped into car seats or safety boosters, a travel tray may provide the perfect surface for working with playdough (especially one with a wipe-clean surface like the Taby Tray, Go-Anywhere Table & Footrest, or Fisher-Price Soft Travel Tray). Help your child shape an airplane, or a boat (perhaps with a small passenger), roll balls to build a snowman, or create a flower with playdough petals, and you'll both be entertained. Here is my family's tried and true playdough recipe, which my mother used for her elementary school students for more than 30 years and still uses today for her grandchildren.

 

Recipe for Playdough

 

Combine and bring to a boil:

   2 Cups Water

   1/2 Cup Salt

 

Add to hot, salty water and mix well:
   2 1/2 Cups Flour

   1 Tbsp. Oil

   2 Tbsp. Alum

 

Divide and color with food coloring as you wish.

 

As far as traveling with playdough through the airport security is concerned, your results may vary. Playdough is not presently listed in the TSA's allowed or not allowed list for carry-on items, and it's not exactly a liquid or a gel, though it can be argued that it resembles a plastic explosive (yikes). You might prefer not to chance it.

 

Safe journey,

Shelly Rivoli, author of Travels with Baby
The Ultimate Guide for Planning Trips with Babies, Toddlers, and Preschool-Age Children

 

 

Tip #16: Bring Garden Training Wire for Childproofing

Friday, December 14, 2007

 

Of the many unexpected tips I included in Travels with Baby, some of my favorite reactions have been in response to my suggestion to pack garden training wire. If you're scratching your head, I'll explain: It's a fine, flexible wire that's coated with plastic (usually green). Sure, training wire is great for supporting tender vines in the garden, but it also comes in very handy when you can't be sure of the furniture at your destination. While there are adjustable and temporary childproofing cabinet locks, you can't always be sure they'll work on Grandma's china cabinet, Uncle Bo's liquor cabinet, Cousin Fred's filing cabinet--or any other cabinet, drawer, or cupboard your child might become obsessed with during your vacation. Garden training wire, however, can help with just about any configuration of cabinet latches, drawer pulls, and closet knobs, if need be. The plastic coating keeps it from scratching surfaces, and you can cut it to the desired length with baby toenail clippers (in case you don't have scissors along). It's inexpensive and takes up very little space in the suitcase, so you can loop the loop for maximum protection. Here's a link to a picture of the stuff and a 50 foot roll of garden training wire to get you started.

 

Safe journey,

Shelly Rivoli, author of Travels with Baby
The Ultimate Guide for Planning Trips with Babies, Toddlers, and Preschool-Age Children

 

 

Tip #15: Use Car Service in New York City

Friday, December 7, 2007

 

One of the nice things about arriving at New York's JFK airport is knowing that your taxi ride into Manhattan will cost you a well-regulated flat fare of $45 (plus tolls + tax), regardless of the route your driver may choose. But as your family grows, and your numbers of people and suitcases and strollers multiply, and your tolerance for standing in lines diminishes -- especially at the end of your journey, especially during peak travel, especially in unpleasant weather, especially with a baby or with very young children, you will be happy to discover there is a better way: The Carmel Way ("car Mel"). For $40 (5 a.m. to 8 p.m.) or $45 (8 p.m. to 5 a.m.) plus toll + tax, you can bypass the taxi line and have your own private car and driver greet you at the curb outside of JFK and drive you to your Manhattan destination ($5 more for stops above 125th St.). Need more seats and storage than a full-size sedan affords? No problem. For $60 (+$9 toll + tip) a Carmel driver will greet you in a minivan and take you to your Manhattan destination. Carmel Car and Limousine Service also offers transportation to and from La Guardia and Newark airports, Queens, Brooklyn, the Bronx, Staten Island, New York state,  Long Island, New Jersey state, Pennsylvania, and Connecticut (call or see website for rates). Carmel does not provide car seats for the journey, but in my experience, they are very kind and patient in waiting as you install your own--even offering to help or do it for me. You can find Carmel Car and Limousine Service and their best rates online at www.carmellimo.com or call toll-free 1-800-9-carmel. For local/live agent calls: 1-212-666-6666. (I should add that this tip is given freely and quite happily, and no kick-backs, discounts, or other favors were exchanged for this recommendation.)

 

Safe journey,

Shelly Rivoli, author of Travels with Baby
The Ultimate Guide for Planning Trips with Babies, Toddlers, and Preschool-Age Children

 

 

Tip #14: Sleep in.

Thursday, November 29, 2007

 

Sure, you probably gave up on the idea somewhere between months 3 and 4 of parenthood, or possibly months 8 and 9, or years 2 and 3? And now, it's hard to imagine a family vacation as being anything less hectic than family life at home. Night waking, early risers, picky eaters, and fearless explorers give the family vacation a shape and color you couldn't have imagined before parenthood. You need a vacation--but you worry that if you go you'll only end up needing a vacation from your vacation. So how do you and your mate manage to each get what you need most from your precious time off? Take turns. Give each other at least one morning of your vacation to simply STAY IN BED. Draw straws to see who gets their turn first, and agree on the hour of late-waking ahead of time. And when it's your turn to rise and shine, strap on the baby or pop the tot in the stroller and roll on out of there to chase seagulls on the boardwalk, eat donuts in the diner, or stretch your legs on a good walk around the hotel. The time you spend one-on-one with your child away from the hubbub of home could be precious, and you can bet the time you spend sawing logs will be, too.

 

Safe journey,

Shelly Rivoli, author of Travels with Baby
The Ultimate Guide for Planning Trips with Babies, Toddlers, and Preschool-Age Children

 

Tip #13: Rent Baby Gear

Thursday, November 23, 2007

 

If having a crib, baby swing, child safety gate, or an exersaucer at your destination could make the difference between a happy holiday or a ho-ho-horrible one, don’t chance it. Reserve the gear you need in advance with a local rental agency. While some agencies carry just the basics: portacribs or play yards, strollers, car seats; others provide just about any and everything you can imagine you might need for your stay: breast pumps, baby bath tubs, books and toys, DVD players and movies, bouncers, bassinets, high chairs, childproofing products, and then some. A few companies will even meet you at the airport with a car seat. For help finding a baby gear rental agency at your destination, check out my online directory. And for more (sanity saving) holiday travel tips, check out my feature just up at Babble.com.

 

Safe journey,

Shelly Rivoli, author of Travels with Baby
The Ultimate Guide for Planning Trips with Babies, Toddlers, and Preschool-Age Children

 

 

Tip #12: Remember to 3-1-1 Your Diaper Bag

Thursday, November 15, 2007

 

As with all liquids and gels in carry-on bags, be sure to follow the TSA’s guidelines for any diapering and medicinal goodies you’ll want for your child onboard the aircraft: 3 ounces or less of each product, all stowed in a one-quart zip-top bag. The allowance is per passenger, so you can keep your own items in your own zip-top bag as well, or combine for simplicity if it all fits in one. Here is a sample modified “travel kit” for your child’s carry-on, with some items you may like to have onboard, especially for longer flights:

Sample modified travel kit for carry-on with 3 oz. liquid restrictions:

Infant’s Tylenol, 1 fl. oz.
Infant’s gas relief drops, 1 fl. oz.
Small tube of diaper crème, 2 oz.
Small tube of teething gel, .33 oz.
Tube of healing crème (doctor’s office sample), .25 oz.
Saline nasal spray, 1.5 fl. oz.

Be sure to present your zip-top bags at security, placing them in clear view in your bins. For any questions about the TSA guidelines and the latest on what’s permitted, visit www.TSA.gov/travelers.

Safe journey,

Shelly Rivoli, author of Travels with Baby
The Ultimate Guide for Planning Trips with Babies, Toddlers, and Preschool-Age Children

 

Tip #11: Check Car Seats at the Gate

Thursday, November 7, 2007

 

Consider for a moment the signs of wear and tear on your well-traveled suitcase, which was built for airport baggage systems. Then take a good look at your child’s car seat. Better yet, turn the car seat over and see where the harness straps feed through the back. That thin plastic shell was only tested to withstand the forces of a suburban-speed crash — one time only. And your car seat manual undoubtedly instructs you to stop using the seat after an accident because, as Graco warns in the ComfortSport manual, “A crash can cause unseen damage and using it again could result in serious injury or death.” If that doesn’t boost your confidence in car seats, keep in mind that the same plastic shell also “expires” after a certain number of years (see the date stamped on the back). Now do you really want to risk having 50 lb. and possibly 70 lb. suitcases dropped on your car seat in the baggage system? Not to mention, it can be hard enough to make due when one of your checked bags doesn’t make the connecting flight, but your child’s car seat? With rare exception, you should be allowed to check your car seat at the gate. While it may be one extra thing to get through the airport, it’s also possibly the most important thing you will use at your destination. Whether it attaches to your stroller, converts into a stroller, is worn against your back, or rides on your carry-on, there are plenty of ways to help streamline travel with your child’s car seat. If you’d like to see some suggestions, check out my car seat pages.

 

Safe journey,

Shelly Rivoli, author of Travels with Baby
The Ultimate Guide for Planning Trips with Babies, Toddlers, and Preschool-Age Children


 

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